Ashley & David's Dream Wedding at Lady J's Country Club in Bismarck, ND
A Lake Como Love Story Comes Home | 09.12.25
When you elope in Lake Como, Italy, you set the bar pretty high for romance. But Ashley and David proved that celebrating with everyone you love in your hometown can be just as magical. Their wedding at Lady J's Country Club in Bismarck, ND was a stunning testament to thoughtful details, meaningful tributes, and the kind of joy that only comes from gathering your favorite people in one beautiful place.
Hi, I’m Megan!
I’m a wedding planner based in Bismarck, and over the years I’ve had the privilege of planning countless weddings across North Dakota and beyond. From tented weddings to rustic barns to ballrooms, I’ve seen firsthand what makes a wedding run smoothly—and what can quickly become a stressor for couples. That experience has taught me to recognize venues that truly stand out, and I can confidently say that the service at Lady J’s is exceptional. From start to finish, their team knows how to make every detail feel effortless, welcoming, and special.
Why Bismarck Brides Are Choosing Lady J's Country Club
If you're searching for wedding venues in Bismarck, ND, Lady J's Country Club offers something truly special. Housed in the original Tom O'Leary Club house, this family-owned venue has been creating unforgettable celebrations since 2000. With a capacity of 320 guests and classic country club elegance, it's the perfect canvas for both intimate gatherings and grand celebrations.
What sets Lady J's apart? Everything is made from scratch in-house, from fresh-baked breads to decadent desserts. This commitment to quality and service means your guests will experience genuine hospitality and exceptional cuisine that rivals any big-city venue.
Real Wedding: Ashley & David
A Wedding Designed with Love and Legacy
Ashley and David's celebration was a masterclass in personal touches. Years after their intimate Lake Como elopement, they crafted a day that honored their journey while paying tribute to the family who shaped them. The couple incorporated meaningful elements from Ashley's grandparents throughout the décor, weaving family history into every corner of their celebration.
The vintage country club setting at Lady J's provided the perfect backdrop for her vision. The venue's timeless architecture and spacious layout allowed their design team to transform the space into something truly spectacular.
The Details That Made It Unforgettable
The Ambiance
Guests were greeted with refreshing Aperol Spritzes (soo Italian 💅🏻), setting a sophisticated yet relaxed tone from the moment they arrived. Live music filled the outdoor cocktail hour space, creating an atmosphere that felt both elegant and effortlessly joyful. Musicians Joel Land, Father Schneider, and Darren King absolutely crushed it at cocktail hour, and the attention to detail did not go unnoticed. (Credit to the bride for her incredible design vision!) Ashley, a photographer herself, has been deeply immersed in the wedding industry for several years, so it’s no surprise that her eye for detail and style is absolutely stunning.
The Floral Vision
Love Always Floral brought Ashley's vision to life with stunning arrangements that complemented the venue's classic aesthetic. Gorgeous floral linens added layers of texture and color, transforming the reception space into a garden-inspired dreamscape.
The Dream Team
Ashley looked absolutely STUNNING in her gown from Your Day by Nicole, with hair styled to perfection by the Apex Hair Co., and makeup by Mariah Edland. World renowned photographer Anni Graham captured every precious moment, from quiet family tributes to the dance floor energy that lasted all night.
DJ Cassandra Chapa from Enticed and V3nue3 kept the celebration flowing seamlessly, while Gathered Boutique Rentals provided the lounge area and gorgeous rentals that tied the entire aesthetic together.
Planning Your Bismarck Wedding at Lady J's
What to Know
When you choose Lady J's Country Club for your Bismarck wedding, you're choosing a venue that knows how to host. Lady J’s operates as a catering company as well, so their experienced team knows how to make events run smoothly.
One important note for planning: Lady J's has a closed-vendor policy for food and beverage, which actually works in your favor. Their homemade offerings are exceptional, and having everything prepared on-site means better quality control and service.
The Perfect Venue for Your Vision
Whether you're dreaming of an intimate gathering or a grand celebration with up to 320 guests, Lady J's classic country club layout adapts beautifully to any wedding style. The family-owned atmosphere means you'll receive personalized attention throughout your planning process.
From Lake Como to Bismarck
Ashley and David's wedding proves that you don't have to travel across the world to create a celebration that's sophisticated, personal, and utterly unforgettable. With the right venue, talented vendors, and meaningful details, your Bismarck wedding can rival any destination celebration.
Lady J's Country Club offers the perfect combination of classic elegance, exceptional service, and homegrown hospitality. If you’re a bride searching for wedding venues in Bismarck, ND that can bring their vision to life while providing a seamless experience, this family-owned gem deserves a spot at the top of your list.
Ready to start planning your Lady J's wedding?
Vendor Credits:
Coordination: Behind the Scenes Events
Venue: Lady J's Country Club, Bismarck, ND
Dress: Your Day by Nicole
Hair: Apex Hair Co.
Makeup: Mariah Edland
Photography: Anni Graham
Florals: Love Always Floral
DJ: Cassandra Chapa, V3nue3, Enticed
Live Music: Joel Land, Father Schneider, Darren King
Rentals: Gathered
Ready to Create Your Love Story?
Ashley and David's celebration didn't just happen by magic - it was the result of thoughtful planning, expert coordination, and a team dedicated to bringing their vision to life. If you're dreaming of a seamless, stress-free wedding day at Lady J's or any Bismarck venue, we're here to help you every step of the way.
You probably haven’t planned an event to this capacity before, and you shouldn’t have to do it alone. Luckily for you, we plan weddings for a living. As Bismarck-based wedding planners & coordinators, we’re here to be your calm in the chaos — guiding you through every phase of wedding planning, from your big-picture vision to the tiniest detail.
We offer month-of coordination, full planning and even honeymoon planning.
With our service collections, you can enjoy every moment from engagement to the flight home, knowing that every detail is thoughtfully handled.
Let's See If We're a Good Fit
The next step is simple: book a complimentary consultation call. We'll talk about your vision, your venue, and how we can work together to create a celebration that's authentically you - with all the vibes and none of the stress.
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xo, megan
Behind the Scenes Events specializes in luxury wedding planning and coordination for couples who want to be guests at their own weddings. After coordinating countless weddings, we know what busy couples need: expert guidance, stress-free planning, and seamless execution.
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